Which Element From the Periodic Table Are You?
You are Cadmium!
Though in many ways a boon to mankind, you are toxic even in minuscule doses. You occur in 8 natural isotopes, of which 2 are radioactive. You are malleable, ductile, and similar to Zinc in many respects. If your atomic number were just one less, you would be the ever-popular Silver instead of obscure, taken-for-granted Cadmium, but you have reconciled yourself to your natural identity rather than wishing for an alchemist to change your nature.
Turn-ons: Sodium, Iridium, and Cobalt people.
Turn-offs: Hafnium, Argon, and Magnesium people.
Ideal partner: Any of the stable isotopes of Xenon, excluding those predicted to undergo double beta decay.