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Jim Warren

Posted on 2009.08.23 at 19:36
Current Mood: sadsad
My telephone rang Friday night at about 2:00 a.m. This is not often an hour when the phone rings with good news. The news was indeed quite bad – that my friend Jim had passed away about 2 hours earlier. I want to pass along the news in this space because a lot of you reading this have heard me refer to Jim over the years, even if you never met him. Let me begin by telling you what I know of Jim’s last few weeks.

A couple weeks ago, my phone rang at work. It was Jim, sounding like his usual jovial, conversational self. He began something like this: “Guess what happened to me today – I had a stroke! I’m in the emergency room right now!” He went on to tell me that the doctors had informed him that he’d suffered “the good kind of stroke.” I opined that this was rather self-evident, given that he was phoning me himself with the news.

I spoke to Jim again soon thereafter and he had more information. He had been receiving a steroid treatment for a bad shoulder, and one of the side effects of the drug was that it caused his blood sugar to zoom up to an alarming level. It was this heightened blood sugar that appeared to have brought on the stroke. Jim was mostly paralyzed at first, but the doctors had optimistically projected a near-full recovery. Indeed, Jim was walking, albeit clumsily, within a day or two, and he reported increased motor skills with every passing day. Still, the prognosis was for months of rehab.

Jim had suffered the stroke while in Indiana on company business. In fact, he’d been sitting in a meeting room with coworkers when he’d suddenly slumped over. So he’d spent nearly a week in a hospital in Indiana before he was transferred back home to Michigan. At the time of his death, he was in the Michigan hospital preparing for a transfer to a long-term rehab facility.

The 2:00 a.m. phone call informing me of his passing came from a friend of Jim’s, who was calling me from the hospital. She’d been on the phone with Jim only a few hours earlier and he’d sounded fine. Whatever happened to him came on very quickly. It wasn’t immediately apparent whether he’d suffered a heart attack, another stroke, or, as some doctor there speculated, an embolism. I believe an autopsy is being conducted though frankly, those details are of little interest to me, because the bottom line is unwavering on this point: my friend Jim is no longer with us, and that’s a very sad fact.

I have a lot of friends/family/acquaintances named Jim, so maybe a few details will help you to know which Jim I’m talking about. This is the Jim with whom I took a bunch of memorable road trips. The Jim with whom I attended a great many Detroit Lions Thanksgiving Day football games. The Jim who used to be married to my sister.

Jim was a very smart, funny, and generous man. He loved a good joke. Even better (for my purposes), he loved a bad joke. I have a lot of memories of Jim that are wonderfully amusing, even laugh-out-loud funny. But please forgive me if I don’t share any of them today. Perhaps another time.

Jim stipulated that there was to be no funeral, so I won’t be going to Michigan for any sort of service. In fact, I’m told that a party in Jim’s honor will be happening soon here in Chicago. He knew a lot of people here, so I’m looking forward to attending that when plans are firmed up. I have no doubt that there will be a lot of laughter on that occasion, and a lot of stories told at Jim’s expense. Neither Jim nor I would have it any other way.


(Anonymous) at 2009-08-27 15:25 (UTC) (Link)


Just saw this post, sorry for the loss of your friend Chuck. I lost one of my best friends in April as well as sadly friends and relatives too numerous to mention in the nine months since my dad's passing. I'm glad your friend will be remembered with a celebration -- I believe that how we should all go out! -- C♫
charlesofcamden at 2009-08-27 15:37 (UTC) (Link)

Re: sorry

Couldn't agree more! Thanks for the kind words.
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